According to tradition, when a man proposes to the woman he loves he
should present her with a ring as a token of his love and his promise to
commit. It also used to be tradition for
a man to spend two months’ worth of salary on that ring. It is difficult for some people to spend that
much money on a ring. It is not the best
idea to start out a relationship in debt, yet that is what many men have to
resort to if they want to uphold tradition.
It might be a better idea if men start to think a little
more frugally. Thinking this way, does
not make the man cheap, it means that he is thinking about his financial future
with his bride to be.
There are many ways to trim the budget for an engagement ring. The most expensive part of the engagement
ring is usually the diamond that is in it.
Most women want a diamond that they can show off to others. To the women, the bigger the
stone is the better it is. You can save
money on diamonds in a few ways. You
might find a wholesaler who sells them at a lower price. You might find a diamond that has some flaws
in it that lower its value. You can
always just get a smaller diamond, but that is not as well accepted. All of these methods to find a cheaper
diamond involve some type of compromising and lowering of your and your
fiancé’s expectations.
Instead of doing that, you might want to consider cubic zirconia rings.
Cubic Zirconia is a crystal that has many of the same properties of
a diamond. It is clear and can be cut
into various shapes. It is very hard
although not quite as hard as a diamond.
It does not have any flaws that can be seen by the naked eye. The big difference between a ring with a
cubic zirconia stone in it and a diamond ring boils down to two main things:
cost and the perception of other people.
A cubic zirconia ring costs a fraction of the cost of a diamond
ring. A high quality engagement ring can
be found for a few hundred dollars or less.
The quality of the metal and the workmanship that goes into the ring
will have the largest impact on the cost of the ring instead of the cost of the
diamond being the biggest part.
People’s perception is a little harder to deal with. If you do decide to turn to a cubic zirconia
ring, you should not worry what others think.
You are still giving a sign of your love and commitment; you are just
being smarter about it. Years down the
road, it is a trait that will be appreciated by your spouse.
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